Saturday, February 13, 2021

Failure Integal Part of Success

 

Many of you are viewing failure through the wrong lens. While on the other hand, many avoid it completely. All of these are an immense mistake. Many individuals have never failed in academics, sports, or in life. Why? Because they are afraid to fail. Unfortunately, that strategy neglects failure which avoids growth. In other words, the path to success. I completely understand failure does not give us a good feeling, but you know it is a fantastic learning curve. Failure offers lessons. Failure contributes to the learning process. So, every time you fail, just remember you are still in the learning process. How many of you ever differentiated successful and failure individuals? Without any delays, let’s dive into today’s topic. Successful people had a developing growth mindset. They don’t see failure as a negative thing. That is why they entered the success platform. Okay, you don’t have to take my words. Just look at the lightbulb. Did you see it? Ya right. Today, we know what is a lightbulb is because of Thomas Edison's developing growth mindset. He failed a hundred times before he was able to beautifully lighten up the light. Similarly, we should get up after every failure. We should have the courage to step back to the road again till we find our true destination of success. When you start accepting failure, remember you are out of your comfort zone which is awesome. But if you still don’t have the courage to accept failure, you will never succeed. Failure is not the direct opposite of success. It is an integral part of success. 

Like I previously said, when we face failure we feel frustrated. Failure is bitter, but its fruit is very sweet. When you fail, view that as a new and fresh opportunity to try again with your full energy. Remember these questions each time you get up from failures. How could I have done better? What skills do I need to improve? What are the steps I need to take to get there? The answer to these questions is the lesson you invested from this failure. Wait, let me rephrase failure as a new way to try again. Rather it is a new opportunity to grow and move in a new direction that is better than expected. From now on, view failure as your teacher. It does not only teach you the lesson to get up and move on toward your success journey. Additionally, it teaches you that there is no such thing as perfection. Then we are willing to take more risk and ready to embrace failure rather than hiding away from it. We get a burst of motivation and strength to try again and again until we get the outcome which is mapped out.

 



Solve Your Problems


During the rainy season, 99% of the birds find a place to stay safely. While only one type of bird ignores the rain. Do you know which bird is that? Let me point out the famous wordings of Abdul Kalam. APJ Kalam sir clearly stated that “All birds find shelter during a rain. But the eagle ignores the rain and flies above the clouds.” While all birds find a safe place to stay, an eagle flies above the cloud to ignore the rain. Are you guys thinking why am I talking about birds today? Do we really mind where each bird stays during each season? 


I am not trying to say bring the birds to your home and give them shelter during hard times. That will be funny. Let’s go 117 years back, many wondered can’t we fly like birds? So engineers used the shape of the birds as an inspiration to invent aeroplanes. Comparatively, all the birds which find shelter during the rain. We as humans, try to hide away from problems like birds which hide from the rain. Most of us have this thought in mind, God only gives problems to me every time. But this is a deniable statement. Everyone has many problems, but each of our problems is unique. We all have problems. Does the difference arise in how we deal with our problems? Do we hide away from it? Or do we strongly face it? The future of an individual is structured by how they solve each problem and move on. 


Life is not perfect, each individual has various problems, either they can live with a problem throughout their lifetime or solve the problem with a solution. How do you define yourself? Like the birds or the eagle? You are defined by how you live like a bird or an eagle. Sometimes we need to stay in our comfort zones. But that comfort zone... should not last over time. It would not get you anywhere in life. Try this from today onwards, step out from your comfort zones, you will find your true destination. It is not my promise. It is my guarantee. Let’s go a little further on today’s topic, can you guys state the main difference between a successful and failure person? Hmm… Oh, in many minds, the thoughts of a successful person had money so they succeeded while the failure person lacked the finance. Or are you the one who defines others' success by luck? No, none of them is the right answer to differen/tea/ate successful and failure individuals. 


Folks, let me define for you. When a problem arises, the one who never gives up and gives a response to the problem by finding the solution is given the rank as a successful person. The one who quit after getting into a problem is considered as a failure person. Problems are similar to the stop signs we see on roadways. Of course, we stop when we see the sign. But we  move on after right? Apply a similar concept in your life. 


Believe in yourself. Have the mindset of a positive attitude. It decides your growth. Solve the problem if you encounter it. If you hide away from it. You hid yesterday. You can hide today. But definitely not tomorrow. It will become an obstacle in the individual success path. So, hiding is not a great solution. You have to be an eagle, who solves the season issue by finding the solution of flying above the clouds. Intell/ actuals solve the problem. Geniuses prevent them,” says the father of relativity. Comment down below if you are an intell/ actual or that genius. If you consider yourself as an eagle after watching my video today, make you hit that LIKE button. Last but not least, sharing is caring right, my friends. Share today’s video to your loved ones so they can get a good lesson as you got after watching. Stay tuned for the next video.

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DISCIPLINE YOUR THOUGHTS - Best Motivational Speech for 2021



 Your Brain’s neutrons create a thought that you have been wishing for, the one all of us want. A goal. A goal, a thing that you do in order to reach it for a good cause. When you get that thought keep it. Don’t abandon it. Keep it. The millisecond you start your goal, you are signing a contract for a lifetime goal. Just like in Harry Potter, Snape and Narcissa make an Unbreakable Vow to protect Draco. This is your Unbreakable Vow. You won’t die for breaking it just to let you know, this isn’t the wizarding world. I don’t care what your goal is. Whether it’s getting a new phone or getting to school on time, I don’t care. The only thing I care about is about keeping it. Whether you are keeping it with you all the time as a phone in your pocket. When you have a goal, discipline your other thoughts that will come in the way. Discipline it like you disciplining a child for something they did. Turn off your iPhone, turn off the television, get going with your goal. You will not rest till you are done. I mean alright you can sleep and eat but you can not leave it for later. Do it now! Now! Now! Now! If you don’t have a goal. Clear your mind, take a deep breath and think. Think of something you want to accomplish. Got it? Well now, that’s your goal. I want you to accomplish it and tell me in the comments what your goal was and if you kept it or abandon it. Thank You!


Letter to President Joseph Robinette Biden Jr.

 


Respected Mr President, Joe Biden


From the core of my heart, I congratulate you as you enter your presidency term! May the Lord, increase your health as you lead us to overcome these challenges to reinstate the soul and to firm the future of our nation. 


 “United, America will stand, Divided, America will fall.” Let’s all remember that when we clasp each other's hand, no one can collapse us. I, on behalf of American students with my tenacity, join you as you bring back America by uniting our people and our nation.


As of now, students will not be enquired about financial situations or background till the completion of 12th grade. After receiving a high school diploma, attending college has been a dream of many students. Those endless night dreams of students faded. My honoured President as you promised to make all public institutions to be free for all Americans; on behalf of all students, I heartily thank you for converting our dreams of getting higher education into the reality of wearing our cap and gown in a University graduation ceremony! 


As you begin your administration, we are ready to write an American story of how American overcame fear with hope, how citizens are united by erasing division, and how we turned on the light by walking up the darkness. Accordingly, as an American, as a citizen, we are ready to bring out American story of propriety and nobility. 


From childhood, I have been dreaming to run as the President of the United States. Mr. President, Joe Biden, my role-model, from your presidency term, I strongly hope to expand confidence and patriotism. Keep me in your prayers. I have enclosed my pocket money of $11 with a kind intended to help our country to vaccinate citizens.


Thank you so much for taking your time reading my letter! May God bless you and your family.




Kindest Regards,

Abdul Jabbar Mohammed Noortheen, 

6th Grade

Future President of the United States












Inauguration 2021


 


1987, the first footstep

2008, the 2nd venture

2020, stole the four chambers of Americans…


Good Morning, left brains of My Fellow Americans...The day we all waited for...is eventually here…


The one who screams for ice cream, High school football star, a law student, husband of Jill, father of Ashley and Hunter...is stepping into the white house not only as a President but also as the father of land of opportunity. 


Even before, women fought for their right to vote, they aimed for higher office. The first black women, an Asian American woman, hold up... I meant the First, the first women, Kamala Harris broke the United States history of male dominance, by winning the election as the Vice President of America.



  • As of now, students will not be  enquired about financial situations or background till the completion of 12th grade. After the completion of high school diploma, attending college has been a dream of many students. Those endless night dreams of students faded.


  • Our honored President, Joe Biden and our respected Vice President, Kamala Harris promised to make all public institutions to be free for all Americans. The dreams of higher education, higher education for American students will come true...


  • The Biden-Harris Administration promises to control COVID-19, build prosperity, to secure family health care, to achieve racial justice, to save our planet from climate change, and to defend democracy in their first 100 days of office.


  • Moreover, they have prepared to reunite children to their families, who were separated at the Mexico Border.


  • This administration started to remove the Executive Order, titled Protecting the Nation from For in Terrorist Entry into the United States.


  • Biden planned to close loopholes in the gun check system, which gives Americans the right to sue gun companies if a gun was used in a crime.


  • In addition, the Biden-Harris Administration outlined to make an executive order to conserve 30%of America's lands and waters.




As our Vice President, Kamala Harris quotes, we have elected a president who represents the best in us, a leader the world will respect, & our children will look up to, a commander in chief who will respect our troops, keep our country safe, & president for all Americans.


I, on behalf of American citizens, with highest honour... welcome the Biden-Harris Administration to restore pride, strength, and backbone of the United States of America. 


Today, January the 20th, Biden-Harris will start to execute their code plan which will be converted to an action blueprint day by day.


No more red states, and blue states...ONLY UNITED STATES….I hope you all heard me...If not, let me repeat it again ….The... United...States




"I have a dream..."

 


Birth certificate registered his name as Micheal King. But it was a mistake because he was supposed to be named after his father who was named for Martin Luther King. 


Without further delay, let’s get on board for today’s topic.” Martin Luther King Jr.  brings out, “How long, not long.” He was born on January 15, 1929. Many of us think of college after getting our high school diploma. Well, this honoured man, skipped 9th and 11th grade, and attended Morehouse College at the very young age of 15. 


He wanted to end racial discrimination and have all Americans to be treated equally. He was arrested by police about 30 times for various protests. In Georgia, 122 streets are named after him. One of his main influences is the nonviolent teachings of Father of India, Mahatma Gandhi. 


The march on Washington in 1963 was probably the most famous protest of all time for jobs and freedom.
Martin Luther king’s most famous speech there was “I have a dream,”  He was the youngest person to receive the Noble peace prize in 1964. 


Still today, he is the only American citizen who is not president to be honoured, that’s why we have a holiday today. It is celebrated to honour Dr King’s life and accomplishments. Until the year 2000, not all states observed Martin Luther King’s Day. Even though his birth certificate name was Micheal King, Everyone still remembers him as the person who changed the lives of everyone. "If a man has not discovered something that he will die for, he isn't fit to live." 

 


Falling Forward

 



People with a fixed mindset say that they can’t be successful as others. “ That guy was born with that successful mind and is going to always succeed. But have you ever asked them how it was like becoming successful? Have you ever asked them was it easy for them? And their answer to you will find it out yourself and it was hard to succeed. People say “ After you decide what you are going to do with your life, you must make sure you have something to fall back on. What does it mean to make sure you have something to fall back on? It means  If you fall back on something, you do it or use it after other things have failed. If plan A has failed…. Just remember, there are still 25 more strategies left for you to do before you fall back. That's a good thing to have something planned if all else fails but what if you want to fall forward? What does it take to fall forward? Well, its main core, main and easiest strategy is a failure. Why failure? well, one failure is the first step to success. It took the Wright brothers about 6 years to make the plane fly about only twice. They failed more than 100 times but the question is, did they give up? Did they fall back? No, they did not give up and they fell forward. Perseverance took over the pain and effort and made it kinda easy for them but in a challenging way. It took Thomas Edison 1,001 times to make the lightbulb. The 1,001 time was when he finally succeeded. It took him 1,000 steps of failure to step into the stone of success. I mean that he failed 1,000 times to make the lightbulb we are using in our day to day life. He did not give up, he did not fall back. He fell forward. Our life is similar to a coin with one side of success and the other failure. 


These days, how many parents are accepting their child fails in the same way they accept their young one's success moments. Not many of you, right? Yup. That’s why children are not strong enough to take failure as an opportunity to learn and move on to the next step of their mission. Rather, they are viewing it in a bad way, and such thoughts put an end to the road of success. How as a parent, can you all fix such problems in your child? From childhood, parents should sow the seed on their young ones to accept failure and move on without any hesitation. Tell them God gives success to us later in life, so we know what it takes to get to the position we are in now. Otherwise, we will take it easy and become lazier as we tend to have the thought of…. oh ya, it’s easy to achieve it, not a big deal. Let's all have the courage to fall forward even if we fail. 




  



Define your passion

 




Who has a passion these days? Say for example you're playing basketball with a bunch of friends and after the game, you're saying to your friends, hmm and if I  play with you guys every day I think all of us can make it to national NBA right? Those things can you become wishes but those wishes can come true.  You need to practice a lot and a lot. Your passion can be anything that makes challenges for you and those challenges that you can defeat and courageous you and motivates you to do it. Say for example you want to be a teacher you want to teach people, for example, you need to have you have to remove that shyness out of you and put that publicness in you. Like as a teacher you have to be in front of a classroom teaching, Everybody is listening in. You should be calm you shouldn't be like hey you, you're supposed to be listening now are you not? Okay, let's calm down. So people don't know how to find your passion, ask yourself is there something that you love doing? Find out what you spend hours reading about, brainstorm with people that are in your family ask around and surf for possibilities.  Don't quit your job just yet! give it a try first do as much research as possible. Practice and practice and practice some more the practices will become something more. Say you're practising an hour each day practising your passion than almost after a year say your parents are telling you, hmm I should really take a video of this and put it on YouTube.Once your video goes on youtube. People basically strangers saw it but some of the strangers can be people like national musicians and they will ask you to come to that so you can play for them. Then after that, you will become something more famous than you is right now so let's all do this discover your passion and follow that passion.


Should I buy it or not?

 

So every day we say we just go outside and then there's something on the counter or there's something in the store that we really want. Say it's a brand new video game or car we all think oh my god I really want that let me start saving to get that. So after day after day, we kept the money to save it but when other thoughts come we actually think, huh should I really put my full effort into this? Why should I actually spend every day to get something else? Saving is income not spent or deferred consumption. Methods of saving include putting money aside in, for example, a deposit account, a pension account, an investment fund, or cash. Saving also involves reducing expenditures, such as recurring costs. That means lower the use of your car cuz if you use your car a lot that means your paying a lot for gasoline to drive your car. We can all try this The 30-day Rule is a Simple Method to Control Impulse Spending. Here's how it works: Whenever you feel the urge to splurge — whether it's for new shoes, a new videogame, or a new car — force yourself to stop. If you're already holding the item, put it back. Leave the store. The 30-day rule is where you write down the purchase you want to make and put the note somewhere where you will see it every day. like on the door when you leave you'll know that that's your goal.  you can put the price of the item and the store that you saw it on the note as well. ... If at the end of those 30 days it is still something that you want to buy then consider purchasing it. In the 30 days,  most people actually think for themselves, hmm shouldn't really buy this.  At first, you really want to buy it within the 30 days say at the end of the  30 days most people will be feeling,  I should not be buying this I should actually spend more time-Saving. That's what most people are supposed to do if you get the feeling of actually buying it at them after the 30 days rule just think to yourself should I really do that or should I save more? That question is for you to answer.