There is no need to defeat others for your success

The sports, games, etc. Won't exist if there was no winning. Am I right? Winning winning. In basketball the teams must get the most points to win, Kickball the teams must get the most home runs to win. Many other things that have winning in it. But the thing is, do you really need to defeat others? Is it necessary for your success? Does the tour book of success say the key to success is defeating others?

We are going to dive into that. 

Hello everyone, my name is Abdul Jabbar, the motivational speaker. In today’s motivational talk, we are covering the topic of There is no need to defeat others for your success.

The team lead called 10 of his employees. He handed each one, a balloon. He explained the rules of the game.

1.  The duration of the game is 10minute

2. Whoever keeps their balloon till the end of the game is the winner explains the lead.

He counted down to begin the game. As soon as he said to start, people started to break others balloon. During the game, the lead announces to remind the employees that Whoever keeps their balloon till the end of the game is the winner, till the end is the winner. No one listened as they were mainly focused on breaking others’ balloons. After 10 minutes….Game Over…

The lead looked at everyone’s hand, no one had a balloon in their hand. The lead smiled and asked them did you guys remember the rule of the game? I said whoever keeps their balloon till the end of the game is the winner. Right? Yes, I did say that more than once. But your mind was focused on winning the game. By the means of popping others’ balloons. See all of your frontal lobes, the part of the brain which makes the decision commanded you to break others’ balloons. With the help of his 11 muscles, in other he smiled and explained to them, If you all kept the balloon which I handed to you, YOU ALL WILL BE WINNER, RIGHT? 

What are you taking away from today’s talk, my dear friends? It’s quite simple. To succeed in our life, we do not need to defeat others. Just focus on your destination, you will reach it for sure. When you push yourself forward. Don’t try to beat someone else like in world records, that’s not how you take yourself to success. You got to defeat YOUR past self and YOUR present self which will automatically improve YOUR future self.

Erase your fear

 

Hmmm, I don't like this I don't like basketball,  this is bad! Do you see that? ,  I just said that I don't like basketball,  but you see if I actually try it,  I don't know if I really like it or not. See right now I actually like it. All too often we let the fear of the unknown stop us. Our brains say for example I'm just about a game, one side is our brain and our emotions and one side is our fear. Fear takes over our brain and telling us you shouldn't do that’s bad, it's not good. See you can hurt and no one wants to see you play,  your bad. That's a thing we need to get out of our comfort zone and tell fear that “Hey you don't bully me now” or you're gonna get a wap.  Okay, we just won fear, once the fear went away now what do we do? We learned that concept say for me I kind of doesn’t like basketball but when I tried it I started slowly taking the staircase. We start at the bottom and then once we reach the top we're home. Okay but let's say this I'm sorry I'm hating it but when I reach the top. I really like it those things can be an example it's related to your life. Thank you

Don't Memorize

 

Oh yeah, true story that you don't ever hear almost every day. Prime Minister Mori was given some basic English skills conversations training before he visits Washington and meets President Barack Obama. The instructor told Prime Minister Mori when you shake hands were President Obama you should say how are you? And  Obama should say I am fine and you should say me too afterwards. We translators will do to work for you. It looks quite simple but the truth is when Mori met Obama,  he mistakenly said who are you and it’s supposed to be how are you. Baraka Obama with his sense of humour actually Just replied “ I'm Michelle's husband” and then Mr Mori said me too. The funny thing about memorizing should be a thing he Mr Mori was trying to memorize the thing but he actually didn't understand the concept to memorize. You have to understand the concept you see this nope not today I don't want even memorize the script, first of all, I took the lesson from it and made it in my own words memorizing can be a hard thing for everyone but this thing can be really funny just take this story from me and put it with you see even Mr Mori just speaks Japanese but he is learning something he learned from his mistake of saying who are you. Mr Mori if you're watching this on just don't sue me okay? Why is memorizing important but not important? If we memorize that we will only remember it for the next two days say for example there is like a big exam tomorrow then you're gonna win a thousand dollars if you get it right, okay I don't think that will happen but if when you take out your notes and study you think to yourself okay I'm gonna memorize this paragraph again I'll memorize the next four chapters. Okay memorizing wouldn't be that the next day you complete the test but memorizing won't get you anywhere. You have to understand the concept first before you memorize it. Understanding it will help you memorize it. Memorizing, can be in the same way it's actually the second step of understanding it first you'll understand the concept then you memorize the concept but while memorizing you making in your own words. See even the script that I supposed to say I don't memorize it!  I take the idea from it and put it in my own words so that's today's topic and you guys should take care of yourself and don't memorize and wash your hands and stay safe, Thank you!

Go beyond Boundaries

 

All of us have dreams of having high positions in our jobs in the future like being president (Me) Being a police officer, fireman and so on. The other day I found a video on youtube showing jobs that people have never heard of before, basically, hotels hire people to sleep in the beds they are going to have for people who are going to live there. They test the people who sleep in it and I think about a year is about 300,000 dollars! I bet all of you want to go to that easy job? Am I right? Anyways some people go above boundaries and go to things not many people do. 

We are going to dive into that. 

Hello everyone, my name is Abdul Jabbar, the motivational speaker. In today’s motivational talk, we are covering the topic of Going beyond boundaries. 

In the 21st century, teachers ask every student, what do they want to be when they grow up. The answers of the students are a  doctor, engineer, lawyer filled up the answer box. During the 80s, the same question was raised among students. The same response came from the student like how we answer today. But, listen to this point carefully, there was one guy who told his teacher that he wants to be a horse rider. The teacher was much similar to the teacher of the 21st century. He was not happy with the answer so he told him to bring his parent. The small guy went home and explained what happened at school. His mom confirmed if he really wants to be a horse rider. The next day, the mom came to the school. There was one frame in his teacher’s office. Let me explain to you all what was on the picture. Arjunan and Krishnan were one of the heroes of the Indian epic the Mahabharata. Both of the individuals were in the picture. Arjunan was sitting on the back and Krishnan was riding the horse. His mom pointed to the picture and told his son you can be a horse rider but be like Krishnan. Go beyond boundaries like how Krishnan did. The student who aimed to become a horse rider was the spiritual leader and reformer of India, Swami Vivekananda.

What we take out from this story is very important, folks. One’s dream does not have to be matched with others. Go higher in your own personalized interest and reach that accurate destination. Whatever you want to be, you will be that, not today but, definitely, tomorrow my dear friends. 

Signing off on MaJTube. See you all soon at our next motivational talk.  Take care.

Original is better than the copy

 

When you hear the sentence “The original is better than the copy” what do you think of? Do you think about movies that have spin-offs or ripoffs? Or Do you think about books, of how the first one was created then it is copied to create many more? We are going to dive into that. 

Hello everyone, my name is Abdul Jabbar, the motivational speaker. In today’s motivational talk, we are covering the topic of the original is better than a copy.

Give yourself an honest answer to the question I am going to ask in a minute or so. Are you being true to yourself or to the expectations of others around you? Simple answer, I can guarantee that more than 90 percent of you answered, I make sure all my actions and dreams meet the expectations of everyone. I am not happy with this answer. Let me give you a real-life example. You are going to the store to buy chips. What do you do? You will search for your favorite original brands like Lays, Doritos, and so on. Why can’t you buy the same brand as your neighbor or your friend or your community? Why not? Eat the same brand. Just for the chips, you guys will not adopt the same brand as others. Then why are you all forgetting originality in your life and following behind someone’s path? Don’t measure your worth against someone. Your value is worth, being an original, then a copy. We should accept our differences and celebrate the uniqueness. You are the owner of your life, be true to your dreams, create the happiness you deserve, live your life without any regrets. Don’t participate in the marathon of million individuals, create your own road and run steadily. Your competitor is the person you see in the mirror, not the person next to you, or the person near you, or the person across you. It is only YOU. Conformity, conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth, John F. Kennedy. To a certain measure, conforming to social expectations is something we do traditionally out of habit. Conformity is ingrained in our brains. Your freedom is gone. You are de/vitalizing your own growth. From now on, follow this remedy to grow and excel beyond boundaries. Be the individual, in this world full of copies. It is one of the best and fullest way to find your success. You are more likely to succeed faster if you love what you are doing. Otherwise, the success destination is very hard to reach in the time frame of your life. You are capable enough to take control of your life. You are the master of your life. 

We have come together and mastered 1 year in our journey of Youtube channel, Motivational Speaker MaJ. I thank, from the deep of my heart, each and every one of you who have been supporting me and looking forward to more support in the future as well. Signing off on MaJTube. See you all soon at our next motivational talk.  Take care.