Forgiveness

 

All of us, let's say you just do something wrong and then oof, we do something. Maybe we bumped into a friend and they start crying or they have a scar or something. You have forgiven them but sometimes they don't think forgiveness it's not enough. For example, you just say “oh sorry dude” but that person who got hurt would actually think that you really did not mean it. Meaning that you didn't really care if they were hurt or not. Let's start the topic, Forgiveness is for our own growth and happiness. When we hold on to hurt, pain, resentment, and anger it harms us far more than it harms the offender. Forgiveness Frees us to live in the present. Forgiveness allows us to move on without anger or contempt or seeking revenge. Say for example so I hit you yesterday and then you're thinking “oh my god my arms so hurts I wanna and hit him back so hard that will make him cry” Okay revenge won't actually want to do that but  It would have started if the person who did that to you still did not say sorry to you. Sorry, won't only work you have to do something else more than just sorry. People just say “ sorry” and then the other person would just say “oh it's okay”,  but in their mind, they won't think it's okay. According to physicist and software engineer Frank Heile, forgiving is difficult because the human brain has a hard time doing that.  People are more likely to lie than saying the truth. Our minds are really worried. like say for example we broke a rule in the school and the teacher asked us “why did you do that?” and in your mind, you can't do anything. You can try your best, and you can say the truth but actually, you just say a lie like, “oh I just did it on accident “and then the teacher forgives you and then you just go away.  It's basically the same thing for forgiving. See people are more likely to not forgive someone than to forgive the person to a different person.  So let's all do this,  forgive the person that you did wrong to or r the person who did wrong to you and still did not forgive you.  Please make sure they forgive you and they have to learn their lesson.  Thank You